“SCREAM OF LOVE” (-about the real love)

In the silence of thunder,
In the darkness of lightning,
In the pain of love,
In the soreness of smile,
In the race of life,
In the cruelness of beautiful earth,
In the loneliness of crowd,
In the ocean of struggling life,
In the world of betraying,
In the flood of blood,
In the thirst of success,
In the scream of rain,
In the gladness of rain,
In the rain of tears,
In the breakings of heart,
I FEEL HOW MUCH

Marriage Ceremony

Marriage ceremony, two heart become one. There are various rules and regulations of marriage. These are different according to religion, culture and so on. We are Bengali. I am now gonna say about my brother’s marriage ceremony.

Bangladeshi marriage ceremony is divided mainly in 3 events. Some people add some more events. Now-a-days, it has become a tradition to increase the events. But there are also some people who lessen the events. ‘Kabin’ is the main thing in marriage. Christians get married in church; they accept each other as life-partner and kissed each other. But in Bangladesh and in Islamic regulation, it is different. Here, bride and bridegroom accept each other as life-partner and signed in a marriage registry book. The bride 1st says ‘kabul’ 3 times together. Then she signed. ‘Kabul’ means she agreed him as her life-partner. Generally when ‘Kabin’ held, the main event also takes place that day. But we did kabin in December 25th. And occasions are start from 21st January. Our events were divided in 5 events. 2/3 days before of the marriage, we have some tradition to done. From bride side, they give us dresses, sweets etc. And bridegroom also gives dresses and sweets. They also give two big fish disguising as a bride and bridegroom. We were from Bridegroom side. We all did what we have to do.

21st January, a event took place which name is Sondha Kota. We, the bridegroom called it Sondha kuta and the bride side called it Mehedi Sondha. This event took place on the same day but in different places and event’s regulations were also different.

22nd day was empty. I mean, that day nothing happened. In 23rd January, the ‘Gaye Holud’ of bride took place in a community centre near their house. ‘Gaye’ means ‘in body’. And holud is a kind of natural thing. We give it in bride’s body.

In 24th January, the ‘Gaye Holud’ of bridegroom took place in a community centre named ‘Officers Club’ in Beily Road (a place in Bangladesh). In bride’s

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